Hypocrits … a friend to everyone
April 1st, 2006, 12:54 am
People often talk about being a friend to everyone. Does this happen, not at my school … my high school isn’t very accepting of anyone. Groups only hang out with people from the same group. No one mixes. This is especially bad for me since I don’t have a specific group.
I’m not part of the norm and I know people from every group. All of them are awesome people and its sad to see people that could be great friends not giving it a shot.
This is probably why high school hasn’t been fun for me. I don’t feel accepted anywhere. No one has made an effort to include me. I can’t say I have tried though.
The people that I do hang out with usually only hang out with us but we do sometimes hang out with others. Our group is made up of lots of different people too. We’ve got a stoner/drinker/partier, there’s a redneck, there’s a hardcore chruchy person, there’s me which I guess you could call the nerd, and so on.
Why does this happen? I don’t know. I wish I did.
By smithy_dll on April 1st, 2006 at 6:52 am
Happened to me when I was at high school too.
I had like 2 friends in the group I was in, the rest weren’t shall we say, that nice to me. I had a friend in the group over, aquantainces all over the place. And by the end of school I also had a friend 3 grades younger than me.
Same at uni. I have my friends from high school, my other aquantainces from high scool, my metr engg friends, some mech engg aquantainces, and some elec/comp sys aquantainces.
Thats life.
By Nephrus on April 1st, 2006 at 10:54 pm
Same thing happened to me, although everyone was mixed in with different groups and some people got shunned, etc etc. I got labelled as the nerd, loser, fag, etc etc etc. All the fun stuff and even placed in some of those groups by others (not sure how that happens).
Not sure how it happens, but I guess it’s based on your community and how many people are in your school.
You’ll be out soon and away from all this class distinction.
By Fountain of Apples on April 3rd, 2006 at 5:55 pm
Do what I did, join your school’s PTA!
By who_cares on May 12th, 2006 at 7:45 pm
There are little social groups in my high school too, you’ll find one to fit with. Find the other Nerds in your school, or find another group. I find that teatre people are a lot of fun if you are a good people person.